Good Lord I wish James would stop this waking up during the night. Tom was up with him almost all night, and this is the third time this week. I have such a headache, woke up with it. It's never a good thing to wake up with a headache.

Tom and I got to have really good sex last night. I really wasn't expecting it, because I just haven't been in the mood. He has been really horny, and I have been so stressed that the stress is over-whelming everything and I just haven't even wanted to think about sex. I have even been trying to read porn before bed to try and help, but nothing. I stopped reading the stories posted in BAC, I figure they'll do me more good when I can get something out of them (sigh). But anyway, something just clicked. Tom slapped my ass in just the right way, and it was good. I made him keep doing it, and got aroused enough to make love. It's never happened like that before.

I also watched some of the lunar eclipse. I love those, it was so beautiful.

Last night was much better than Friday night over-all. Went out with Kim and the kids, that sucked, just to the grocery store, BORING since I didn't need anything and she wanted to grocery at Wal-Mart. I got stuck with the kids. It was decent company though. Then we went back to her house, she fixed dinner while I came back to my house and got Patrick, he called into work sick. He is SUCH A COMPLAINER!I don't think I could live with that. It would make me nuts. I grew up in a house where you didn't complain unless you were close to death. He makes it sound like his leg is broken if he stubs his toe. He is hyper-sensitive to pain, and I think he milks it for attention from Kim.

Dang, I just realized I never wrote about James birthday. It was nice. He got lots of presents. We had a nice party here at the house. Ellie did come, because one of the dogs got sick so she decided to wait to go up to Jersey. So she came with Tom, and Trish and Shane, and Kim and Patrick brought Mark. Tom did so much work getting ready for the party it made him really dizzy, so he layed down before everyone got their he missed everything. I felt so bad. The Cates couldn't come and neither could Vince and Dawn, but maybe next year.

I like this Sunday morning tradition of going to Kim and Patricks for pancakes, but it's so hard to get tom functioning in the morning. (and I make better pancakes :D) I have no clue what I am going to make for all of us for dinner. I should get something out before we leave. Speaking of leaving, that was the girls calling to be picked up from Sunday school. gotta go.